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Easy, but depth-ful, ‘thinking-of-you’ gift


A seed was planted in my head a while back while reading a blogpost by Tric over at from My thoughts on a page. If you haven’t found Tric yet then you really should head over there if you like soulful writing.

It was an idea for a small gift that I could give to some people in my life, that came from the heart.

When I look at it tangibly, it seems like a very small thing but the intangible place the gift comes from is expansive. I nervously wonder if only a small number of people would ‘get it’, as not everyone would be into the ritual and intention I give with it. Different strokes for different folks and all.

We bought Summer bulbs when they were on offer recently. We planted some in the garden, Elf and I, and then I got to work on the gift I wanted to send to a special someone.

The first of these gifts to be sent was to this special person who cannot even begin to imagine what they have given to me in energy, healing and love over the short period of time we have known each other. It is so hard to find something expressive enough to return to someone in terms of energy, healing and love. It is all in the intention, I believe.

Although this is such a small gesture, in my heart, in what I am giving, it is huge.

I sat in my room, the kitchen no less, lit a candle and brought in a soft light to work by and chose the bulbs I’d be sending.


I wrote a letter on the gorgeous Cathy Kidson stationary that I received as a Christmas gift (I am stationary obsessed). I just went with my intuition on what to write in the letter. I found my pink Aura Soma bottle (colour therapy) and decided to theme the blessing to what pink symbolises which is compassion, forgiveness and self-love. I filled a small fabric gift bag with the bulbs and sprayed a cotton bud with the pink floral scent (you could also use an essential oil).

It felt good sending the gift because this is something I would usually say that I would love to do but then don’t because I put it too far down on the list. Yet, after doing it I felt great pleasure sending someone a little blessing.

Although when it is received initially it will be just a seed, the flowers will bloom this (and every) Summer. The blessing will come to fruition and the receiver will think of compassion, forgiveness and self-love every time they see these flowers. They act as a reminder to love and to just go easy on yourself.

I was thinking that this idea could also be used as a gift for those in grief or those celebrating an important stage in their life.

Or, simply, you could just send them as a thinking-of-you gift.

Thanks for reading,

Laura x


13 thoughts on “Easy, but depth-ful, ‘thinking-of-you’ gift

  1. It would be just fabulous to receive something like this, so very thoughtful

  2. You are so preciously lovely. Anyone who has the honour of knowing you is truly blessed ❤

  3. That’s a great idea…. So simple but very thoughtful… x

  4. What a beautiful idea. Gifted from unconditional love……

  5. Gorgeous gift. Who wouldn’t love to receive something so heart-felt?! Lucky special-someone!

  6. This is such a thoughtful, kind thing to do! I would be so happy to receive a gift like that! I might steal the idea…. 🙂

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